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Do you ever hear your boss's voice and cringe? It's not what she says, it's how she says it. I have had to learn to control my facial expressions.
Top Three:
1. Taking credit for what others do
2. Talking over others in meetings
3. Interrupting when the conversation does not include them.
More to come.
-standby
Springtime Truffles from See's Candies.
Yes, Please & Thank you!
I'm suddenly really into little neck scarves. They add a nice polished touch. I splurged and purchased a Hermes scarf, it's so luxurious and makes me feel fancy. Despite having a few no-brand scarves, this one is so beautiful. Once I took it home, I washed it, hung it to dry, and wore it immediately. This precious pink and blue scarf with small hearts is from the Dollar Tree store, and I love it.
As much as I love my designer labels, they do not define me. This sweet scarf is my favorite by far.
"Where do you plan to spend your summer?"
- The Del.
Then, I got pulled over for driving with expired tags. I had just asked my husband, "Did you renew the tags on the truck?" With confidence, he replied, "Of course, I did." I believed him. However, the tags were 6 months past due, and the officer gave me a $50 fix-it ticket and set me free. I called my husband to confirm that he had not renewed the tags, but he was still convinced that he did. Then, I received an email, "Your tags have been renewed." Next stop, police substation to get a signature on the ticket and pay the fine.
Instead of dwelling on the ticket, I treated myself to a pedicure! It's worth noting that the truck belongs to my daughter and is a classic 1996 Ford R150. The officer even complimented it!
Aging parents. You are still the child but now have to make a decision you don't know how to make. Being a respectful child and to your parents but forcing them to agree to care, diet, and a new lifestyle. Show love but be strong to guide them without disrespecting them.
Feeling like an adult but a child at the same time. They are feeling so helpless but strong for you.
Sometimes I just stare at them and think, what happened you took care of me my whole life and now I hope I do the best I can for you. It's how I feel about my kids, I want to be the best mother, but now I want to feel I am being the best daughter.
Nothing prepares you for parenthood and there is absolutely no preparation for caring for aging parents.
I have promised to do my best.
-Love
We are friends who call ourselves "Kinder Moms". We first met when our kids were in kindergarten, and now our children are finishing their freshman year in college. One of the moms was the teacher for our kids in kindergarten, and they loved her. Throughout the years, we have watched each other's kids grow up to become amazing young adults.
We have shared many moments together, including laughter, and tears, holding hands through illness, loss, divorce, and celebrated successes and re-marriages. We often gather at each other's homes to eat, drink, and laugh a lot. Although we have made many plans over the years, family life has caused us to cancel many of them. However, we never get upset, blame, or hold grudges against one another. We always support each other no matter what.
Tonight, we will meet at the beach at 7 pm, each with an adult beverage in hand, to watch the sunset together. We will end the day by spending the evening with our feet in the sand and most likely laughing.
Note: Someone always volunteers to be the designated driver, so all can enjoy safely!
-Cheers from Rio del Mar, California
